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The secret to enlightenment and great sex is revealed to be one and the same in this groundbreaking manual for adventurous lovers. David Deida was trained for decades in the art of spiritual and sexual awakening. Now he presents the ultimate collection of skills for opening to the physical, emotional, and spiritual rewards of intimate embrace. In paperback for the first tiThe secret to enlightenment and great sex is revealed to be one and the same in this groundbreaking manual for adventurous lovers. David Deida was trained for decades in the art of spiritual and sexual awakening. Now he presents the ultimate collection of skills for opening to the physical, emotional, and spiritual rewards of intimate embrace. In paperback for the first time, The Enlightened Sex Manual teaches you how to transform simple "skin friction" into the depths and embodiment of ecstasy, how to develop sexual abilities as gifts of heart rapture and bodily surrender, how to achieve the principal types of orgasm-and all their varieties-and much more. For men and women, singles and couples of every sexual orientation, The Enlightened Sex Manual provides a complete program for sustaining "whole-body recognition of love's light" in the wild play of sexuality.Contents Part One: EnergyUse your breath to arouse and relax your genitalsRestrain your nervous systemUse your tongue like a circuit breakerUse your eyes to direct energyPart Two: OrgasmBypass ejaculations for greater pleasureRetrain the addiction to ejaculationCurb fidgetsGood ejaculations liberate energyOptimize ejaculations to maximize life's depthEjaculate when the body needs toUnderstand the three types of women's orgasmsEnjoy clitoral orgasmsDelight in vaginal orgasmsSurrender in the bliss of cervical orgasmsChoose when to orgasmAllow orgasmic variationPart Three: VariationsStimulate the sex pathsBite, slap, and pinch to move sexual energyMove energy through the lips, nipples, and genitalsStimulate the anusDo the feetThrust both deep and shallowConnect the cervix and penisVibrate quickly to increase and smooth out energyRelax your body and breathMake love for at least forty-five minutes Part Four: Sexual Energy ExercisesBreathe sexual energy in a circleBreathe genital energy upBreathe energy down the frontSeal your pelvic floorLock energy in your soft partsPraise "David Deida explains the heart and soul of women to men. As a woman, I've never felt so understood and validated. David's work is a key to helping men and women alike take their relationships one step further. Finally, a clear and brilliant guide to unraveling the mystery of relationships." Marci Shimoff, Co-author of Chicken Soup for a Woman's Soul "Being able to reach and live integrated sex, relationship, and transcendence is no easy task. It requires immense courage, wisdom, and above all, fearless loving. In Deida, all this gets included in one radical teaching. You'll learn how to open your heart and integrate the need to sleep with every attractive woman you see, deal appropriately with a woman's emotional chaos, give your gift to the word and lover, and finally transcend the whole lot by including it all." Vijay Rana, The Watkins Review "Deida brilliantly lays bare the hidden psychology of feminine and masculine and offers clear instructions for tapping into our deepest core and achieving true harmony through sexual intimacy. I feel that Deida has reached a new level of poetic genius in his writing, and his understanding of feminine psychology astounds me." Miranda Shaw, PhD, Author of Passionate Enlightenment: Women in Tantric Buddhism "David Deida's teachings on this central human concern, sexuality, emanate from a deeply trustworthy source. He has undergone his own rigorous training and practice, which manifests in precise, gentle, and thorough teachings. Many spiritual traditions, including Zen, have excluded or marginalized the sexual experience. David's work fills this gap, and gives us a mature approach for bringing the energetic, emotional, and physical experience of sex into our life and practice. And like Zen, the fruition of David's work is openness, compassion, and love." Genpo Roshi, Author of The Eye Never Sleeps...

Title : The Enlightened Sex Manual: Sexual Skills for the Superior Lover
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ISBN : 9781591795858
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Number of Pages : 177 Pages
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The Enlightened Sex Manual: Sexual Skills for the Superior Lover Reviews

  • Kimberly
    2018-11-07 18:05

    With every book of Deida's I read, life experience mirrors literary word and I'm able to utilize the text and view the effects. In this case, the practices within the book for channeling energy correspond perfectly to self studies in Kundalini yoga and subtle energy. Great points: This is a more personal book, dotted with extremely well written personal accounts of love making and consciousness expansion. The discussion of different orgasms (clitoral, vaginal and cervical) is FAR better written and described than any other text I've read - even female writers. Granted, I am due to reread Diana Richardson's Tantric books again. But, the way Deida describes the method of activating each orgasm is - lack of a better word - awesome. The work is highly accessible in content, structure and writing style. You either are drawn to it, or you're not. Not that big of a deal. If you don't like Deida, I can list a few other writers to consider (Mantak Chia, Diana Richardson). There are many different writers and paths that will take you to the same destination. As for me, this is a solid book that add more depth to my subtle energy / partnership learning.

  • Pamela Wells
    2018-11-10 18:56

    What a wonderful book for women who are ready to leap into love while leaving the broken past behind. Even though I already have a wonderful man, this was still for me a very enlightening book on how I could "open myself" to even deeper loving of my beloved. This is a most spiritual book because David understands that union with the other is the most profound thing we can accomplish as human beings and that being in LOVE is the most profound experience of GOD and is GOD. You will learn and understand from this wonderful book, that Love is God, the other is YOU and you and the other are ONE. Highly recommended for all women. For men, David's book "The Way of the Superior Man" is excellent and should be required reading for any man who wants to fall deeply in love with his woman.

  • Laura
    2018-11-16 19:05

    Although I'm wary of Deida's repeated use in several of his books of the word "superior", this book is guide for those who are seeking a spiritual connection via sex in addition to mere physical pleasure. Deida says, "Love is continuity with infinite life force, a oneness of being with no separation. Opening sexually is opening to this flow of life force. And love is the key to this opening." Well said, I believe. Deida's writing is quite flowery and creative at times, and, if he ever needs some extra cash, would make a fantastic erotic literature writer. For the ladies out there, this book offers an additional insight. Since the assumed audience of this book is male, Deida goes into very articulate depth about what sex feels like for a man. As a woman, I appreciated seeing the sexual experience from the other side.

  • Axel Flodin vacher
    2018-11-16 19:17

    Practical book that might introduce new ways of thinking about sexual practices. Has a spiritual aspect to it that could be fun to explore.

  • Alison
    2018-10-27 21:05

    I could have done without some of his personal sharing regarding his adolescent sexual experiences and fantasies, but I appreciated his elaboration on energy, anatomy, and the role of love in ability for the body to "wake up" and for lovers to reach ecstatic bliss (I learned a lot about my body that I'd never known and found very "enlightening"). There are no affiliations with any specific type of spiritual path purported, and the aim of the author seems to be about the lessons of connectivity, receptivity/openness, and how the sharing of love between two lovers; physically and emotionally, can open us to all of life's experiences and to giving love to others and the world.

  • Liz
    2018-11-15 16:15

    CDs 1-4 were a powerful reiteration of the material from Deida's body of work- even for someone who has ready the majority of his print titles, I found it a worthwhile departure to absorb the concepts in the verbal medium.CDs 5 and 6 lost focus and the guided exercises just did not hold up to the pace of the other content, nor did I find them very effective.However, for book on CD to have in the car for a week, it was worth the time.

  • Bart
    2018-10-23 19:13

    There are eight useful pages in this book - they concern a breathing and pelvic-contracting exercise - and these pages are embroidered by 120 or so effectively useless pages filled with mythology and love and the author's florid descriptions of things about love's mythology he proves are indescribable by his inability to describe them.

  • Timm
    2018-10-27 15:58

    Tantric practices at their most distilled and most currently refined form. Pre-requisite for the performance of sex magick. Recommended to accompany a regimen of Yoga for the deepest and most liberating effect. This is THE MANUAL for cultivating and navigating an enlightened life of play.

  • joui
    2018-11-15 14:18

    Always wondering what was missing in your sex life? David D. has many insightful, inspiring, beautiful ideas surrounding sexuality and spirituality. For both men and women...and even what he says about women shows a deep connection and compassion for the fairer sex.

  • Cameron
    2018-11-04 19:17

    Inspiring, intriguing, a new approach to sex and what it means for two lovers to come together

  • Grace
    2018-11-01 14:02

    love the meditation on cd included in this book

  • Ivano Porpora
    2018-11-02 15:14

    Molto interessanti gli esercizi di respirazione.

  • A Rye
    2018-11-16 20:53

    How stimulating.Sorry, couldn't resist.

  • Arash Narchi
    2018-11-10 17:00

    Language is very spiritual so if you're not into that it may turn you off. He focuses a lot energies trying to take a more holistic view of sex and view the polarities of men and women and how they can come into unison. My criticism is that he could've trimmed the fat and made it a much shorter book even though it's not too long already. Not Great, but good and has some nice takeaways